Break ups 101

There should be a class for guys and girls about breaking up. How to deal with it, what to expect, how to do it nicely, how to move on, etc.

I have had so many friends come to me with problems in their relationships or come to me and say they were broken up with or broke up with someone. It's heartbreaking!

I went through my "Notes" on Facebook and laughed at how pathetic I used to be. I was so wrapped up in what it meant to have a boyfriend that loved me. I kissed his ass and everyone could see. I read a note that I wrote to my now ex boyfriend when we hit a year and it was disgusting. It didn't even sound like me! I was first of all, appalled at how I wrote it and secondly, how up his ass I was. I made him out to be this prince and I kissed the ground he walked on. He said "Jump!" and I said "How high, baby?" with adoring eyes, butterflies in my chest and the thoughts of "How lucky am I?" going through my head.

Gross.

I'm so glad that I'm out of that stage. No wonder he left me, I was annoying! But, I had to go through that to get to where I am and to all you women out there, you'll get there too. I promise! :)